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It's already midnight and still i couldn't keep my eyes closed..so i thought why don't i share with you guys few tips on relationship...well, it's a mix up of true-life experiences and on reading..My hubby will be coming ( back for good! ) after spending most of his life working abroad...Yes, I have this big smile on my face, counting the days for him to come..For that occasion ( hehehe ) i wanna share 10 tips on what guys look for in a serious relationship which i had read recently...i know i'm married but perhaps these tips would help the ladies out there who are still single and available..ready?
1. A sense of humor
Yeah, i agree on this..a bit sharing of hahahaha in life would be just great!! And also, men like it when a women has the confidence to be funny. "Believe me, we want you to make us laugh too," says Zachary Davis, author of Roses and Brass Knuckles: A Man's Pocket Guide To Winning The Dating and Marriage Game. 2. Flexibility
No, we're not talking about physical flexibility (though, no doubt, plenty of men have that on their list). We're talking about the ability to be adventurous and explore life as it happens. Take it easy as it comes...
3. Honesty
This is important especially for LDR ( long distance relationship )...what you give, you get back i guess...hmmmm
4. Positivity
No, we're not talking about physical flexibility (though, no doubt, plenty of men have that on their list). We're talking about the ability to be adventurous and explore life as it happens. Take it easy as it comes...
3. Honesty
This is important especially for LDR ( long distance relationship )...what you give, you get back i guess...hmmmm
4. Positivity
There's no question that life has its ups and downs but an emotional roller coaster is not high on any man's list of desired traits in a girlfriend. Regardless of what life throws your way, a positive outlook on life will get you far. "Too much doom and gloom usually works its way into the bedroom," according to Davis. "How can we have good night if you are always having bad days?"
5. Support
This can apply to both his personal and professional life, but men want a woman who is in his corner no matter what. "A man's self esteem and ego are driven by his success in the business world," says Spira. Take an interest in his work, make an effort to understand his struggles and then provide encouragement.
6. Reliability
It's doubtful that an unreliable woman (or man) will change her (or his) stripes once a relationship is in full swing, so men want to see this trait in a woman before things get serious. "It is easy to love when you can count on someone!" Some ways to show that you're reliable include being on time, following through on commitments and being a good friend.
7. Motivation
Motivation is usually high on the list of characteristics that women look for in a man, but it goes both ways. "How can we move forward in a relationship, when you don't want to move forward in your life?" asks Davis.
8. A social life
Even men who enjoy being in a relationship need their space, and they need to know that their girlfriend can have fun without him if necessary. "Nothing is worse than when you starting dating a woman and she becomes completely attached, and the two of you are together 24/7," says Davis.
9. Sexy + Smart
"Men are visual. When they see a woman with the intelligence behind the pretty face, it's a winning combination." Don't hesitate to share your intellectual passions. Maybe you are a crossword puzzle buff, an economic genius, a business whiz or aspiring author. Whatever your area of interest, flaunt it; don't hide it. Get sexy + smarter!!
10. Confidence
Again, this is something men and women have in common when looking for a long-term partner. "A man is attracted to a woman who is confident on their own," says Spira. "Although they look forward to sharing together as a couple, if she can make it on her own and isn't needy, she'll capture his heart."
6. Reliability
It's doubtful that an unreliable woman (or man) will change her (or his) stripes once a relationship is in full swing, so men want to see this trait in a woman before things get serious. "It is easy to love when you can count on someone!" Some ways to show that you're reliable include being on time, following through on commitments and being a good friend.
7. Motivation
Motivation is usually high on the list of characteristics that women look for in a man, but it goes both ways. "How can we move forward in a relationship, when you don't want to move forward in your life?" asks Davis.
8. A social life
Even men who enjoy being in a relationship need their space, and they need to know that their girlfriend can have fun without him if necessary. "Nothing is worse than when you starting dating a woman and she becomes completely attached, and the two of you are together 24/7," says Davis.
9. Sexy + Smart
"Men are visual. When they see a woman with the intelligence behind the pretty face, it's a winning combination." Don't hesitate to share your intellectual passions. Maybe you are a crossword puzzle buff, an economic genius, a business whiz or aspiring author. Whatever your area of interest, flaunt it; don't hide it. Get sexy + smarter!!
10. Confidence
Again, this is something men and women have in common when looking for a long-term partner. "A man is attracted to a woman who is confident on their own," says Spira. "Although they look forward to sharing together as a couple, if she can make it on her own and isn't needy, she'll capture his heart."
Well, hope these tips would motivates us to build stronger relationship with our partner...for the sake of our happiness
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